During our life we meet a lot of different people with whom we spend time or even have relations. But how often do you have such feeling that this is not your person? We are sure you had situation like this one in your life. So how to understand that this woman is what you are looking for and she is your second half.
If you trust the modern science, we propose you to read the facts below that will help you to start a serious relationship or even find a soul mate.
1.You share the basic spiritual values and principles.
Not every dispute can be resolved with compromise. It is one thing to disagree about the spending of the upcoming holiday, and another thing is to have very different views on questions of marital fidelity, honesty, decency, religion, relationships with parents, etc. Really close people will have the same outlook on life.
2. You should have chemistry at once and a strong mutual physical attraction.
It is absolutely normal if physical attraction brings people together at the beginning of a relationship. We are like animals, subconsciously smelling can help us to identify our second half. However, for some reason, we mask the natural smell with odor of perfume and colognes, thus greatly complicate our search. If the physical attraction is strong at the beginning of the relationship, the more likely it will be enough to maintain the fire of love in future life.
3. You should have common hobbies and interests.
It doesn’t mean that a perfect match should share all of each other’s interests. On the contrary, freedom of choice in the interests and hobbies makes relationships stronger. However, a couple should have some common interests. Some couples like to read, others – dogs, someone loves extreme sports or work out together. It is very important for relationship to support each other in such way.
4. You need to have the same opinion about the family budget.
According to statistics, money issues are the most common cause for quarrels in the family life. Very often men forget that they should give presents to their ladies, because it is very expensive. But believe us if you want to see the smile on her face, surprise her as often as possible, because woman as a little girl is waiting for something amazing from her beloved one.
5. You know how to negotiate very well.
Be ready that your second half can not read your thoughts. Ability to speak and to hear is one of the most important thing in building strong relations and future family. For example, she loves flowers, and you – football. You believes that the bouquets is wasted money. She believes that family dinner with her mom is much more important than your football match on TV. Compromise — you should give her flowers on holidays and she will not invite her mother when you watch a football match.
6. You both want (do not want) to have children.
The decision to have children probably is one of the most important choice in the life of both man and woman. Be ready that your lady asks you about your wish.
7. Trust your intuition
The difference between people is that someone can hear his inner voice, but deliberately ignores his call, and someone, when he hears it, begins to listen immediately. If you feel intuitively that this woman will bring you peace and harmony, care and love, don’t doubt, just listen to the voice inside of you.