1. Self-sufficiency. This is the most important quality of a successful man. In other words, you should not make them bored. Your life is not going to end and the sky does not crash to the ground if you are away from your girlfriend. If you are not self-sufficient, you will constantly beg for her attention, and it quickly and reliably leads to a skewed balance of significance. However, if the goal is to build a harmonious relationship, no mater how weird it sounds, learn to be alone.
Be your own best friend. It is important that you feel comfortable in solitude, and you know what to do. Start with small things. Surround yourself with interesting classes, start a project. And gradually from these occupation in the form of hobbies, sports, interesting work, friends, you will create a framework that will make you resistant to problems in your personal life. Women feel it and are subconsciously afraid to lose such a man.
2. The ability to evoke emotions. For an average man, who is from childhood accustomed to hide his feelings, it is really hard. Managing emotions is a very delicate thing. But, if you learn this, you’ll be out of competition. When the girl lives with you strong feelings, it makes your relationship vibrant and very valuable, because the emotional side of communication for women is very important. And she will seek to you to get your dose of drive. There is still the principle of “you do not have you.” If emotions are not you in a pair of runs the show, this will make the woman, manipulating you and changing your mood after their own will. If you do not want to live according to her emotional outbursts, feelings take control in their hands.
The ability to show emotions – it is in fact the ability to convey your emotions differently. You must learn to understand the mood of the girl. And in order to convey your mood, you should be able to express it. The problem consists in the fact that the majority of men believe that emotion – it’s for girls, and somehow not for a real man. But we are not talking about tears, although negative emotions sometimes may be out of place. Try to show joy, happiness, peace of mind by transferring your emotions in the relationship needs. To begin with, try to get rid of the eternal disconcert and feel free to be emotional. Only through the ability to express emotions, you can learn how these emotions affect another person.
3. Be interesting. So, it has formed historically, and your society developed it the way that the vast majority of men are boring. They may have interesting life, but very few of them can tell about this vividly. But no matter how busy your life if, try to present your lady with your company and take part in her life and world. The first thing you must learn is build your lives so that the girl wanted to be a part of it. And, do not give up on this goal, it will really be interesting to ladies. Do what you like the most.