When some relationships ends painfully, it is very difficult to believe in love and open yourself to new person. But it needs to be done to live fully life again.
Love is a beautiful feeling which allows you to soar high into the sky and experience a range of the most delightful emotions. However, then stronger the love then the harder the breaking up. When a beloved one closes the door forever, it seems that the world collapsed: the emotional pain is so strong that the person looses the feeling of desire to live.
If you at least once experienced a bad breakup with someone you really love, with whom you think you can go hand-in-hand life, you in some degree can be closed for relationship, becoming more wary and distrustful. And if such life experience is repeated again and again, force yourself to be opened to new feelings becomes extremely difficult.
Many people who once burned are afraid to get close to the fire and prefer to stay away from the flame, which can be fatal. But this fear of another failure can and should be eradicated.
Leave the past in the past
Let’s say you meet somebody who seems to you very attractive. Perhaps he or she could be the person you dreamed about. A spark appears between you and this person, but you quickly start to suppress your feelings, pouring out on this spark buckets of water.
And the whole reason is the last experience of your relationships — the beloved one also seemed the Most Wonderful on earth, created especially for you. And then you felt betrayal and pain. The relationship ended, leaving the heart scar. And what if this time it will work in the same way?
However, you need to learn to live in the present, not projecting your negative experience on all potential new relationships — otherwise you may lose the real chance to be happy.
Start with a clean slate. Learn to accept people as individuals. Everyone is different, and therefore they can behave differently. Leave the past in the past, don’t bring over a load of painful memories that prevent to enjoy life. Of course, it is impossible to completely erase from memory all that was happened, but it is important to forgive yourself and others and be able to turn the page of the book of your life in time.
Don’t be downhearted. All people make mistakes, even famous people. If you have lack of inspiration, look for information about well known people who were in a similar situation, but are happy again. There are many such examples.
You can find happiness anywhere. We are happy to help you with this. On Step2Love there are Hundreds of single hearts wish to feel the great power of love again. Don’t lose the opportunity to be happy!