People tend to have quarrels and misunderstanding every day. It is even said that if a couple doesn’t brawl, there is probably no love between them (though I personally don’t thinks so, as a quarrel is just a sign that you have different points of view on an issue or you are just too irritated). So, the best way to cope with a quarrel is to avoid it and to stay calm so that the storm calms down itself. Unfortunately, sometimes this doesn’t work, and shouting still burst out, the way of behaving should be quite another.
Quarrel of course starts because of anger which one of partners feels. So, you just need to allow your significant one let the steam out. Yes, you will have to keep yourself in hands, but if you don’t want to continue arguing for too long, just wait until the silence comes back itself. » Read more..